Successfully Influencing “New to Real Estate” Candidates to Make a Career Change

One of the questions we often get
from hiring managers is…”How do I consistently get high quality candidates to
make the commitment to become real estate agents?” 

OnthefenceAs we observe this process, it
always seems the best candidates are on the fence because they don’t have to
become agents.  Since they have talent
and marketable skills, they usually have the option of doing something else.  Often, that “something else” is just staying in
their current job or career field.

How do you get these candidates
off the fence and headed towards becoming your next top performing agents? 

According to new research
recently published
in Harvard Business Review, keep them focused on a great outcome they will personally realize if they become real
estate agents.

The research on this topic was
conducted by Dr. Mark Goulston and Dr. John Ullmen and is summarized in a new
book called Real Influence: Persuade Without Pushing, Gain Without Giving
In
.   Here is a excerpt from the HBR
article:


RealInfluenceFew people like to be pushed
into doing something, or sold hard on it. And few like to push or deliver a
hard sell. But at the end of the day, or even the end of a conversation, you do
have to move things forward. So how do effective leaders really get things
done?

As part of the research…[we]
interviewed more than 100 people who "get things done," but who
aren't pushy. But when we asked them, "Who persuaded you to do something
really important?" more than a few arched their backs and replied
defensively, "Nobody persuaded me to do anything
important!"

When we switched tactics and
asked, "Well then who positively influenced you to become the person you
are?" they leaned back, smiled, took a deep breath of satisfaction and
replied, "Now that's a different story!"

This small change in perspective seemed to help the researchers
uncover several consistent and repeatable patterns among great influencers.  As a hiring manager, these patterns could be
very helpful—don’t you think?

I won’t steal the author’s
thunder by revealing all their secrets, but I did find one of their techniques
very compelling:  Great influencers learn
to communicate great outcomes.

“When people paint a
picture of a great outcome, they're not trying "to persuade people to do
something important." They're trying to "positively influence
them" to get them to a better place.

Take the story of Jim
Sinegal, co-founder and former CEO of Costco, largely seen as the heart and
soul of that great company. Jim is very humble and doesn't like to be given too
much credit for his and Costco's success.

He often tells the story of
how, as a recovering juvenile delinquent still headed in the wrong direction,
he was working as a bagger at FedMart in San Diego. One day he was singled out
by the legendary Sol Price, the founder of FedMark who is viewed as the father
of the warehouse store concept.

Price saw beyond where Jim
was, even beyond where he wanted to be, to where and who he could be — and
focusing on that "great outcome" let him influence Jim,
even as others had failed to persuade him. Price's dedication
to customer value and the caring treatment of employees lived on through Jim
and is so ingrained in the Costco culture that those values live on beyond his
stewardship as CEO.”

For a real estate hiring
manager, there is an important lesson in this approach. If you try to persuade someone
to take the next logical step in their work life (ie. become a real estate
agent), you’ll likely come across as “salesy” and meet resistence.  

But, if you effectively
“paint a picture of a great outcome” for the candidate during the interview
(and consistently during the follow-up process), the research suggests that
this will produce a different result.   You’ll
become a positive influencer rather than a ineffective persuader.

Question:  What type of “great outcomes” do you think
would be compelling to the candidates you are interviewing?


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3 Tips For Successfully Building and Working Your Network

Over the years I have trained many managers on a
piece of software we developed called the TalentPipeline.  We developed this software specifically as a
recruiting tool for managers to diligently and thoughtfully keep track of their
recruiting efforts and their recruiting network.

ScaleShorty after introducing the software, I saw a pattern develop quickly among the majority of early adopters. Most managers seemed to have an insatiable desire to dump a VERY large database of
agent contact information into their TalentPipeline, even though I had advised against
that and advocated for a smaller more manageable pipeline.

Steve Tobak, a management consultant, discusses the
benefits to a quality versus quantity network in the excerpted article below.

“Success in business is all about relationships.
Your network is your most important asset. Treat it that way…

Business life has always been about connections.
Business leaders spend decades building and cultivating those relationships.
They cherish their networks because they know it's their most valuable asset.

If your networking strategy is simply to grow it,
then you're likely doing more harm than good. Contrary to popular wisdom,
bigger networks are not necessarily better networks.”

Steve provided a list of ways to build and maintain
a network of strong, quality relationships. 
The following strategies are worth noting here;

1. Respect contacts as individuals.

Remember that contacts are real relationships with
real people. They have their own lives and they're busy. Your urgent needs may
mean squat to them. You have to respect that, meaning you can't just send out
blanket, generic requests to groups of people and expect anything in return
except a lot of irritated contacts.

When it comes to relationships of any kind, you've
got to remember that it's a two way street. You have to give to get. The best
way to do that is to always, and I mean always, ask yourself: What's in it
for them?
It doesn't have to be quid pro quo, but it helps if you do
something for others before asking them to do something for you.

And never spam them. Ever.

2. Keep your network current.

Let me tell you something interesting about
contacts. They don't age well. They get out of date really, really fast. That's
because it's a crazy, complex world so people are constantly adapting to
changing conditions.

The truth is you're better off keeping your list of
key connections short and staying in touch with them as appropriate.

3. Make your network personal.

Look, success in business is all about
relationships. That's how all opportunities arise between individuals. And
there's a big distinction between old school networking and social networking.
A personal relationship creates a level of trust that really sets you apart
from the virtual hordes.

In other words, one personal, face-to-face relationship is worth a
thousand online ones. That doesn't mean you shouldn't network with people on
LinkedIn or wherever you want to spend your time. Just keep in mind that, if
you never really get to know someone, that relationship isn't likely to amount
to much. So why bother?”

If you want to be successful in managing and nurturing your network you must be mindful of the people not the numbers.  If your network is too large, the valuable work of cultivating those relationships is either non-existent, or not genuine.  While it may appear on paper that you have a large network, it only becomes valuable if it is being tended to with value, authenticity and time.

Question:  How many candidates are you able to successfully maintain in your talent network?  


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Risk Averse is Life Averse–Part 2

In the last edition, I wrote about my mid-life transition that
occurred 12 years ago. Reliving the details of that change reminded me of the
tremendous risk I felt as I initiated my new plan.

Despite this risk, I knew that my choices were limited. I could
remain burned-out and bored with the confines of a full-time clinical practice,
or I could undergo some radical changes to my direction and see what happened.

One choice included no risk while the other included some risk
(although it was far from financial ruin) but held the hope of freeing me from
the trap I felt I was in.  

After describing the benefits that followed, I promised to tell
you more about a new book that confirms the wisdom of taking calculated risks—especially
during the productive years of a person’s career.


KarlPillemerKarl Pillemer, a renowned gerontologist at Cornell University,
wrote a book called "30 lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the
Wisest Americans.
"  This book is a
gem.  It includes insight that he
distilled from interviewing more than 1000 aged Americans. While no book is
perfect, it does contain themes of wisdom that are truly engaging and appear to
resonate with eternal themes. 

To give you a quick bit of medicine from this book, read
the following "refrigerator list" of principles learned:

1. Choose a career for the intrinsic rewards, not the financial
ones.

2. Don’t give up on looking for a job that makes you happy.

3. Make the most of a bad job.

4. Emotional intelligence trumps every other kind.

5. Everyone needs autonomy.

30-Lessons-for-LivingAfter reading this list, spend some time soaking in the value
of something this simple and profound. If you think about it, each of these rules
is crucial to the recruiting process—both the interview and the follow-up
process. It is what’s rumbling underneath the surface in the minds of the
candidates.

This is an insightful basis for asking hard-hitting questions:
Are you (ie. the candidate) in a career with intrinsic rewards? Are you in
search for a job you enjoy? If they doubt their smarts, do you realize how
important emotional intelligence is to succeeding? And, lastly, how badly do
you want autonomy? 

Don't get me wrong. A real estate career is not for everyone.
But the people in your pipeline figuratively raised their hands at some point
thinking that it just might be for them. Will they regret it later if they
don't try? 

Dr. Pillemer says, “yes.” 
At least that’s what most of his research subjects told him:   

"I can only channel to you what the consensus of the 1200
elders in the study was. From the end of life, they definitely have a
"take a risk" attitude, when it comes to time versus money.

They don't want you to do something that might bankrupt you, but
if there's a choice to be able to live comfortably and have more time to
actually live life, they recommend trying to make it happen.

It is a balance between being financially secure and having more
time, but they really encourage us to not stay longer in a job we hate than
absolutely possible."

This is valuable insight because most people whom you interview will be dissatisfied with their current
job.  This is often their motivation for
researching new careers. 

If you can help
them see the future and overcome their natural aversion to risk, you’ve done
them a great service.  You’ll also do
yourself some good—you’ll hire agents who are motivated to flourish in your organization. 


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Risk Averse is Life Averse

About 12 years ago, I was burned out in my
work-life.  At the time, I found it difficult to maintain almost any
degree of excitement towards my daily routine. This was a new feeling for
me. Up to this point, I had found it easy to capture enthusiasm towards
my work. 

What caused this situation to develop?
 There were probably several factors. Part of the issue was related to a
transition at home.  I was being freed up from many parenting duties (I
had one child in college and two more about to enter), and the nature of my
role was changing.  

During that period (that I have since referred
to as "Dave's Doldrums"), I was introduced to an exercise that
eventually helped free me from those very doldrums. The task was called
the "Sage Letter." 

I know it sounds a bit far out, and I
usually avoid anything that remotely smells of pop psychology.  But I was
desperate, and I thought I'd give it a try.

Happy young and old ladiesThe exercise involved imagining myself as
an 85-year-old man looking back at the events of my life. From that perspective,
I wrote a letter of advice to myself at my current age (I was 40 at the time).
 I know this sounds simple, but it actually takes some time to write such
a letter.  I had to seriously dive headlong into this somewhat bizarre
task of "becoming" this 85-year-old man. 

I eventually knew that I had arrived at
the "right place" when I truly felt confronted with an actual
85-year-old version of myself.  I started uncovering my hidden blind spots
and aversion to risk. The pure wisdom of brutal honesty suddenly poured out on
the page.  I started to understand why I was experiencing these doldrums,
and I could see how much self-sabotage was going on in my life.

This exercise helped me gain some much-needed
clarity. The primary insight I experienced was an awareness of the risk
aversion that had crept into my life. It had not been there before, but had
slowly and insidiously developed.  But, it didn't stop there. The letter
also revealed hidden truths about how to improve my marriage, my friendships
and my spiritual life. 

Since that experience, I cut back on my
private practice, began a consulting company, taught graduate classes at a
local university, started leading a ministry at my Church, and helped start
Tidemark and see it grow.  My energy and enthusiasm for life returned.

Why am I disclosing all this?  It's
because I recently ran across some research explaining the risk aversion that I
had felt during this critical juncture in my life.   It is actually quite
common and typically happens during an individual’s child rearing years.
 The result is a "freezing" of the ability a person has to
thoughtfully make big life decisions and it later leads to a profound sense of
regret. 

The research was summarized in a recent
book, 30 Lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans,
written by Karl Pillemer, a human ecology professor at Cornell University. Dr.
Pillemer spent five years interviewing more than 1000 Americans who are over
65 years old. 

In the book, he distills their wisdom into
principles on work, life, marriage, parenting, and other topics. He also
describes how many of these elderly people regret having been risk averse
earlier in their lives. 

In the next edition, I'll share more about
this research.  But in the mean time,  I'd like you to think about
how this relates to the people you interview, recruit and manage. Who could you
advise to use the "Sage Letter" exercise? Or, maybe it is time you
give it a try to yourself.   

Question:  Are there any
opportunities you missed in your professional life because you were risk
adverse?  What did you learn from the experience?


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To Increase Your Recruiting Results–Help Others to Help Yourself

In my
previous life (pre-Tidemark), I was a case manager for Big Brothers and Big Sisters in New Hampshire. Before that, I worked as an "at risk" youth counselor for another non-profit organization. 

While
the backgrounds of those I served was not pretty, the outcomes of my efforts did make a difference. In my previous positions, I had to set my goals for the long-term.  Short-term results were either nonexistant or difficult to detect.   

BbbspicObviously,my experiences are not
in the same vein as most real estate owners and managers, but there are some suprising similarities between the roles. In fact, if you're going to meet your retention and
recruiting goals, you will be more successful if you approach the problem from a framework of helping those you want to recruit and retain. This is what worked at Big Brothers and Big Sisters, and it can work for you as well.

The starting point of this process is gaining an understanding of what is causing the individual to struggle (ie. what are his/her needs).  The only way to truly get this information is to naturally engage in a relationship building process. 

Once you can identify an area of concern and
can help that person navigate through it, you have become an incredible source
of value and authenticity–two critical components in retention and
recruiting.

Brian
Patrick Eha
, assistant editor for Entrepreneur.com, recently wrote an article
discussing the work of the late Zig Ziglar.  Below is an excerpt, which is very relevant to my point.

“If you want to achieve your goals,help others achieve theirs. Motivational speaker Zig Ziglar did
just that, reportedly traveling more than five million miles in his career and
touching a quarter of a billion lives. Fortunately for us, he left behind a lot
of sound advice.

'You will get all you want in
life if you help enough other people get what they want,' Ziglar famously
said. Put his maxim into practice: Next time you're in a meeting, focus on
discerning the other person's needs rather than your own.

Form personal connections with
customers.
 Customers often buy from the
businesses and sales professionals whom they like on a personal level. Do a
little research before meeting with your next client and look for common
ground.” 

Try substituting “customer” and “client”
with "agents," both existing and those whom you wish to recruit.

Once you get to the point of helping people
solve their problems or overcome obstacles impeding their success, you will have
taken one giant step towards your recruiting and retention goals.

Take it from a Big Sister…helping others achieve their goals will naturally help you
achieve yours.

Question: 
What difficulties do your candidates commonly face?  Have you figured out a creative way to help
them over these obstacles?  Take a minute
to share what you’ve learned…


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When Change Hits, Your Top Talent Leaves First

Editor's Note:  This article was written by  Mark Johnson, a guest contributor to WorkPuzzle. Mark is a coach, speaker, and trainer who works with the Tom Ferry Companies. 


Naturally, your best agents and staff have the most
alternatives in the marketplace. Highly talented people are the most likely to
be recruited away and the best equipped to leave on their own initiative.

If you wait until your agents (or staff) go public with their
plans to leave –before you re-recruit them–you've obviously waited too
long.  The heart leaves before the body.

TopTalentForbes recently published an article 10 Reasons Your
Top Talent Will Leave You
and it triggered me to think about how our
broker owners, managers and leaders execute the retention effort across their
companies.

Few things in business are as costly and disruptive as
unexpected agent or staff departures. And despite what you feel or think, when
Forbes interviewed employees here’s what they said:

  • More than 30% believe they’ll be working someplace else
    inside of 12 months.
  • More than 40% don’t respect the person they report to.
  • More than 50% say they have different values than their employer.
  • More than 60% don’t feel their career goals are aligned with
    the plans their employers have for them.
  • More than 70% don’t feel appreciated or valued by their
    employer.

The facts are that agents and staff who are challenged, engaged,
valued, and rewarded (emotionally, intellectually & financially) don't
leave. However if you miss any of these critical areas, it’s only a matter of
time until they head for the door. 

Forbes went on to identify these 10 reasons your talent will leave you:

1.  You Failed To
Unleash Their Passions

2.  You Failed To
Challenge Their Intellect

3.  You Failed To
Engage Their Creativity

4.  You Failed To
Develop Their Skills

5.  You Failed To Give
Them A Voice

6.  You Failed To Care

7.  You Failed To Lead

8.  You Failed To
Recognize Their Contributions

9.  You Failed To
Increase Their Responsibility

10. You Failed To Keep Your Commitments

 

Smart leaders don’t allow these mistakes to happen. Start
re-recruiting your key agents and staff today. Take a look at the 10 reasons and
create a strategy in your company to address the biggest issues.

Start by
spending less time trying to retain people, and more time understanding them,
caring for them, investing in them, and leading them. When you do, the
retention you desire will naturally happen. 


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MarkJohnsonEditor's Note: This article was written by Mark Johnson.  
Mark
is a coach, speaker, and trainer who works with high-performing real estate
agents, teams, managers and leaders in the highly competitive Southern
California marketplace and across the United States. 

 A US Army veteran, Mark
has since led multi-million dollar strategic operations initiatives, major
sales and recruiting promotions, sales force automation ventures,  and help desk support projects.  He currently works with the Tom Ferry
Companies.